Wednesday 23 October 2013

How to stay positive when things are looking bad :)

Hello Beauties :)

I know I haven't written a post in a while but I have been so busy with everything but finally I can sit down and write a post. I normally write on Beauty Products and anything do to with makeup but I wanted to write something a little different today. We all want to look beautiful and we all want to be happy and yes makeup can make you look beautiful but its also about being happy.
Now some people may think this is corny but it is important to stay happy because being stressed and anxious can play a big part in breaking out of your skin, losing weight or picking up weight and all the other Beauty related things.
 So here are just a few tips on how to stay positive and happy when things/life is really looking bad.

1. No matter what is happening in your life make sure that your health does not suffer. Your health should be your main priority because if you let your health suffer all those difficult things that are happening in your life can seem even more challenging. The better you feel the easier it will be for you to overcome any challenges you are experiencing. 

2. Sometimes we all just need to take a break from being busy, thinking, talking everything. We all just need a few minutes to unwind and kind of process what has all happened. It helps to go into a quit room and just relax, let your muscles relax and your brain, while doing this its good to think about happy positive thoughts so that it puts you in a good frame of mind. 

3. A lot of people tend to dwell or get caught up in the situation or challenge they dealing with instead of trying to take action to solve the problem. Worrying is such a big part of us already that we actually need to train ourselves to focus on finding a solution to the problem. Once you have done that you will be able to handle a  lot more and you will feel more confident to handle the situation without doubting yourself. 

4. Make sure that you have a great support system. Sometimes we just need someone there to listen to us and give a little advice on how they would solve it or just to give their opinion. Having someone that supports you no matter what always helps because you feel 100% comfortable with that person and you trust their opinion or advice. So find that person and stalk talking ;)

5. A good thing to do is get rid of any negative people or things in your life. Having negativity in your life can only cause you stress and anxiety and in turn it will cause you to be more negative than positive. Once you have gotten rid of those negative people or thing you will feel like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders and you will feel a lot more positive and happy. You will be more ready and confident to take on any challenge that comes your way. 

6. Always remember that things happen for a reason. People come into your life to either be there forever or to teach you something. There is always something to learn from a bad situation and there is always something to smile about. 

So ladies and gents this is just a few things to help you stay positive and happy. We all go through those bad time where things look like they are never going to get better but they will!
Like I said everything happens for a reason, that guy you thought was everything may just be there to show you what type of guy you shouldn't go for or that fight you had with a friend may just show you that you as a person need to be more understanding. Things happen to teach us a lesson or something valuable. 

So stay positive and I hope this helps. 
Lots of Love
xoxox

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